Kicked Out!
February 13, 2007
Well I'm
officially kicked out of my house! Those of you who know me, know that I've made some mistakes in my past and that I always
exaggerate my stories- read on and know that none of this has been censored or
exaggerated!
I guess I should start back a few months. My landlords are nice people, but not always the most helpful. I had no dishes or kitchenware- the hutch in the house was full of extra plates, pans, silverware, etc. The wouldn't let me use it- I accepted that.
They are very traditional and so I respected their values and tried to be as considerate as possible. I'm a
night owl- but friends would leave early, I would turn off music, etc. to respect them- even
though the would make noise no matter how early they woke up.
They went to our school and told our boss that we had someone living with us and so wanted to break our contract... the truth is that my
roommate has a
Rasta boyfriend (who doesn't smoke marijuana- at least not at our house) and they don't like his image. Since them then they have been nothing but rude to my
roomie and
her boyfriend- like they stare him down and give them the cold shoulder!
That is all trivial and actually
irrelevant. On Saturday the mother landlord came to me and said she would have a party in MY house on Sunday from 11-7. I tried to explain that I don't
have a problem with that, but that my friends were staying the night and I didn't want them to feel rushed... they replied, that they would come over to clean at 9 AM! I said that my
roommate had been sick and I would have to check with her.
I checked with her and we decided NO... too short of notice (they'd been preparing the yard and food for days- the goat was already slaughtered!- and yet had failed t o ask our permission) I told the mother. She wasn't pleased.
That night the father landlord approached me while I was walking one friend out of the compound. I was holding my friend Rebecca's son. He wanted to
know why we said no- I told him, my guests
would be here in the morning, Sundays we rest, need to do a little
lesson planning, blah, blah. He stopped talking, pointed at me and said, "You are a sinner... You are a sinner." I said, "Excuse me? We'll talk in the morning.
We are all sinners, I admit I am one- but he has n reason to judge me. Men rarely come over and they NEVER spend the night- we don't do drugs- we're polite. Who is he to judge?
The next morning we're sitting around the table having breakfast. Knock at the door. The mother and twenty some daughter come barging in the house. In Amharic the mother asks, "Will we have the party or not."
Rebecca translated- "No." I invited them to sit down, cleared
space, served tea- but hey didn't want to talk. As the mother began removing the locked away dishes I'm not allowed to use she yelled that if we didn't allow the party we had to be out on Monday! Then a long drawn out, unbelievable, ridiculous fight ensued. Basically she told everyone to shut up
repeatedly, insulted everyone, refused to speak English but insisted my friend
Rebecca (who was translating everything) leave and never come back to the house... Nothing was resolved. In the end we had to physically hold back the old lady and her daughter!!!! They were yelling at and going towards
Rebecca!!!
Since then it has been nothing but cold shoulders! Yesterday we invited them over to talk- I don't want to live there, but
I want to discuss our problems, what is their
problem with me? Why did they get so upset? I want them to understand why we said No re: the party... After waiting for hours- they never came!
Tonight the same thing happened- I'm pissed their wasting my time! After asking
them several times how much longer they'd be, finally the dad said he'd talk to us with our supervisors tomorrow at school!?
So I'm out- who knows where I'll live next. Things here are getting too complicated for my taste! Really- did I do
something wrong? I pay $4000
birr a month, with one days notice I can say no to letting my landlord hold a party in the house, right???